A viewing will be held Wednesday evening from 6-8 at Holbrook Mortuary, at 3251 S 2300 E Salt Lake City, UT 84109.
Funeral Services will be held Thursday, February 12th, 11 AM at the LDS Chapel on 2300 E Bengal Blvd (approx 7600 S.) in Cottonwood Heights, 84121.
A viewing will take place from 9:30-10:30 prior to the services.
Please note this will be closed casket, in Dad's own words: "I would prefer no open casket viewing, but do as you please. I understand that a viewing is for the living and not for the dead, but if folks want to know what I look like, put a picture of me on the casket. Why would you want to see me when I'm not there anyway? I'll be busy elsewhere."
We also felt after being so sick, it wouldn't do Dad justice.
Also in Dad's own words: "If you insist on flowers, bring live ones that can be planted after the funeral if the season allows, and put in a memorial tomato plant for me in Blanding somewhere. Or anywhere. Then eat them 'till you can't eat anymore."
(We'll take any flowers, I just wanted all to know Dad's wishes. Also, he chose the wrong season for flower-planting, but we--his kids--will keep them alive and plant them in the spring.)
He added: "Have a nice dinner after the funeral and visit and tell a few jokes, or at least a darn good story or two.
"Hug each other a lot...forever, and don't forget me.
"Bury me in Cougar Stadium...but only if Bear is there."
(This is a small preface to a letter he wrote years ago to be read at his funeral. I wanted to add that much here for those who cannot attend. If you know Dad, you'll know how much these statements are him, and how it makes my heart wish HE were here to read it himself.)
Love to all. Thanks for the support, near or far.
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Those words are so very much like the Jeff I know. Thank you for sharing them with us Jen.
ReplyDeleteCorey Grua
My memories of Uncle Jeff will forever remain a treasure to me. I too shall miss his hugs and laughter, but I rejoice over the fact that he is having a wonderful family reunion with my mom (Edlenna) as well as many other siblings and granddad, and aunts and uncles. He truly will be missed and the tears are for us the living and not him. I send my love and prayers for all of you, especially Aunt Jeri. Thanks for the beautiful things that have been written in the blog.
ReplyDeleteTera Lynn Strohl
Aunt Jeri and cousins, I just need to let you know how much I love you. And I, too, love your dad very much! I am pretty sure there isn't a soul who met your dad who didn't love him. His kind, loving and gentle way touched everyone. And of course, as mentioned many times, his hugs!:)
ReplyDeleteIts hard to smile through tears, but its also hard not to chuckle while reminiscing the memories! I am pretty sure he is telling jokes, that is, if he can stop chuckling long enough to finish it!:)
I cherish the memories of Uncle Jeff and Aunt Jeri living on J Street and also their home in Rose Park area. Crashing at their pad with Newman and little Tim, eating ice cream or popcorn. Then ovaltine for breakfast and watching cartoons. Those are just a few.
I loved him coming over for a hair cut. It was the half hour hug :) when he came and of course again when he left :) not to mention the visit and food shared between. You will be missed Uncle Jeff, but never forgotten. Love and peace to all of us.
Love, Lynette
Aunt Jeri and family, Just want you all to know how much I love you all and how special Uncle Jeff was and is to me. I will always cherish the memories of his smile and his quirky jokes! He always had a way of making you feel so special and he will be truly missed. I know the heavens are rejoicing in welcoming him home once again. Love to you all! LeaEila
ReplyDeleteI didn't know Jeff very well. But, I have always been good friends with Rachel. I do remember him backing into my car once at their house though. He was always so sweet and funny. My heart goes out to your sweet family. It makes me happy that he had family there waiting to welcome him Home.
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ReplyDeleteWhat an amazing family you are. Thank you for sharing your stories and updates about Jeff w/anyone who knew him. You have been real troopers through this illness, and taken such good care of him. I have prayed for Jeff and all of you. I knew Jeff through work and he always had a smile. He was a blessing to anyone who knew him. The comments he made about the funeral was so typical and wonderful that you would share them. Take care of each other God Bless Deb
Well i just found this blog! i went to school with rachel, and jenn. Even though it's months after i want to express my condolences on your loss! your a great family!
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